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You may want to give lesbian dating online a try, if you've done the rounds of the bars and clubs and still haven't come up with a good match yet. Dating through a website allows you to be very specific about your own background and about the type of person you'd like to meet while opening up your search for true love to lesbian singles around the globe.

Despite the international possibilities it's best to search for someone from your own region, otherwise you're going to end up with a virtual relationship only. Most lesbian dating sites freely allow you to categorize yourself along very specific terms from lesbian, to bi, trans, butch, femme or undefined, and have space to let other members know how out you are, how much you drink, your political views, your interests and any special kinks you enjoy.

When you're looking for an online lesbian dating site don't just take things on face value, browse the ads to see what type of people are advertising, read the small print about fees and what is included in your membership and see how much space you'll be given for your profile and photos.

Some of the most popular lesbian dating sites include the pinksofa.com, planetout.com, technodyke.com, girldates.com and gaydatingdirect.com. Once you choose one to join spend some time writing your profile and check it carefully for grammar or spelling mistakes. Appearances do count and other members want an idea of what you look like so upload a good photo - you'll get far more responses.

It's easiest to correspond by email first. Instant messaging requires an immediate response and can be a little daunting if you're new to the online dating game. Email gives you a bit more time to consider your answers and lets you get to know someone better. Don't give out any personal details until you trust someone and are willing to meet them. Test the waters with a phone call before meeting in person and then head off to enjoy your date if you both still seem interested.

Online dating can put you in contact with other women in your area and let's you hook up with those you find interesting. Who knows you may make some new friends or even find a date. Don't be too disappointed if your first date doesn't quite work out though - it may take more than one go to find a dyke you like.

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